Here I sit, perched excitedly on the cusp of the beginning of brand spanking New Year with mere hours to go. I ask you – how invigorating is it to know that come January 1st we all get a fresh clean slate to start writing on? I feel like I’m eight and it’s the commencement of a new school year. I’ve got a shiny backpack, unmarked notebooks and sharpened pencils, plus a fresh package of new crayons with which to color my world any hue of the rainbow I desire.
That’s what January 1st means to me: it’s a ‘do over’ start if you will, and I know exactly where I’m going to begin… with me.
2010 was a year of learning for me, and with some of those lessons came smidgens of sadness and dabs of disappointment. I won’t lie and say that all those lessons were great because they weren’t. At times I felt a bit lost, as if I were oar less in a leaky rowboat, somewhere out on a seemingly endless sea.
Thankfully by November, I had found a life-line, pulled my battered boat to shore, and on shaky legs finally stood up on solid ground once more. And here’s what I’m taking with me from the journey of 2010 into this nice, sparkly New Year:
1. It’s okay to not always know where you’re going. Why? Because if you travel the same path over and over and over again, without taking side trips and an occasional detour here and there, you’ll never get to see any of the wonders that await you off the beaten tried and true path.
2. Learn to trust your intuition because your ‘gut’ never lies. There’s a reason why they call it ‘gut’ instinct – that little voice inside us that sends out clear messages like, “Don’t touch that burner – it’s hot and you’ll get burned!” That wise person inside each of us also tells us what is the right (and wrong!) thing to do when faced with making decisions. We just have to learn to be patient – to wait for directions, and be still enough to hear them when they arrive.
3. We are our own worst critics but can also be our best supporters. Believe that you matter. You are a ‘somebody’ in your own life – a hero to yourself. When you are living a life that makes you smile, brings peacefulness and joy into your heart and others, then YOU have become the champion of YOU.
4. Keep the fire of adventure and imagination burning brightly in your heart and mind. Never lose your sense of wonderment. I grant you that some days the only wonder you may experience is trying to figure out how they get the caramel into the Caramilk bar, but never stop dreaming. At least once a day ask yourself, “I wonder if…” and fill in the blank. Even if it’s something totally silly it will keep those creative juices flowing in your mind and may cause you to smile.
5. And last, but certainly not the least by far, laugh. Out loud. At anything, at least once every day. A true, straight from the belly, snorting, guffaw until tears leak out from your eyes type of laugh. This was the life-line I regained back in November and I am going to do my utmost to hang on to it for the duration of 2011.
I’d like to leave you with this wonderful prayer I found many years ago which has been my unofficial mantra for the past year.
“To Be Prayer”
O Lord, I ain’t what I ought to be,
And I ain’t what I want to be,
And I ain’t what I’m going to be,
But O Lord, I thank You,
That I ain’t what I used to be.”
I know I love this new me and have a great feeling I’m going to like this New Year. Happy 2011 to all!